Friday, April 27, 2007

An incredible story

Here's an incredible story that I came across today. I hope you enjoy it.


As I walked home one freezing day, I stumbled on a wallet someone had lost in the street. I picked it up and looked inside to find some identification so I could call the owner. But the wallet contained only three dollars and a crumpled letter that looked as if it had been in there for years.

The envelope was worn and the only thing that was legible on it was the return address. I started to open the letter, hoping to find some clue. Then I saw the dateline -1924. The letter had been written almost sixty years ago.

It was written in a beautiful feminine handwriting on powder blue stationery with a little flower in the left-hand corner. It was a 'Dear John' letter that told the recipient, whose name appeared to be Michael and said that the writer could not see him any more because her mother forbade it. Even so, she wrote that she would always love him. It was signed, Hannah.

It was a beautiful letter, but there was no way except for the name Michael, that the owner could be identified. Maybe if I called information, the operator could find a phone listing for the address on the envelope.

'Operator,' I began, ' this is an unusual request. I'm trying to find the owner of a wallet that I found. Is there anyway you can tell me if there is a phone number for an address that was on an envelope in the wallet?'

She suggested I speak with her supervisor, who hesitated for a moment then said, 'Well, there is a phone listing at that address, but I can't give you the number.' She said, as a courtesy, she would call that number, explain my story and would ask them if they wanted her to connect me. I waited a few minutes and then she was back on the line. 'I have a party who will speak with you.'

I asked the woman on the other end of the line if she knew anyone by the name of Hannah. She gasped, 'Oh! we bought this house from a family who had a daughter named Hannah. But that was 30 years ago!'

'Would you know where that family could be located now?' I asked. 'I remember that Hannah had to place her mother in a nursing home some years ago,' the woman said. 'Maybe if you got in touch with them they might be able to track down the daughter.'

She gave me the name of the nursing home and I called the number. They told me the old lady had passed away some years ago but they did have a phone number for where they thought the daughter might be living. I thanked them and phoned. The woman who answered explained that Hannah herself was now living in a nursing home.

This whole thing was stupid, I thought to myself. Why was I making such a big deal over finding the owner of a wallet that had only three dollars and a letter that was almost 60 years old?

Nevertheless, I called the nursing home in which Hannah was supposed to be living and the man who answered the phone told me, 'Yes, Hannah is staying with us.'

Even though it was already 10 p.m., I asked if I could come by to see her. 'Well,' he said hesitatingly, 'if you want to take a chance, she might be in the day room watching television.'

I thanked him and drove over to the nursing home. The night nurse and a guard greeted me at the door. We went up to the third floor of the large building. In the day room, the nurse introduced me to Hannah.

She was a sweet, silver-haired old timer with a warm smile and a twinkle in her eye. I told her about finding the wallet and showed her the letter. The second she saw the powder blue envelope with that little flower on the left, she took a deep breath and said, ' Young man, this letter was the last contact I ever had with Michael.'

She looked away for a moment deep in thought and then said softly, 'I loved him very much. But I was only 16 at the time and my mother felt I was too young. Oh, he was so handsome. He looked like Sean Connery, the actor.'

'Yes,' she continued, 'Michael Goldstein was a wonderful person. If you should find him, tell him I think of him often and,' she hesitated for a moment, almost biting her lip, 'tell him I still love him. You know,' she said smiling as tears began to well up in her eyes, 'I never did marry, I guess no one ever matched up to Michael.'

I thanked Hannah and said goodbye. I took the elevator to the first floor and as I stood by the door, the guard there asked, 'Was the old lady able to help you?' I told him she had given me a lead. 'At least I have a last name. But I think I'll let it go for a while. I spent almost the whole day trying to find the owner of this wallet.'

I had taken out the wallet, which was a simple brown leather case with red lacing on the side. When the guard saw it, he said, ' Hey, wait a minute! That's Mr. Goldstein's wallet. I'd know it anywhere with that right red lacing. He's always losing that wallet must have found it in the halls at least three times.'

'Who's Mr. Goldstein?' I asked as my hand began to shake. 'He's one of the old timers on the 8th floor. That's Mike Goldstein's wallet for sure. He must have lost it on one of his walks.' I thanked the guard and quickly ran back to the nurse's office. I told her what the guard had said. We went back to the elevator and got on. I prayed that Mr. Goldstein would be up.

On the eighth floor, the floor nurse said, 'I think he's still in the day room. He likes to read at night. He's a darling old man. 'We went to the only room that had any lights on and there was a man reading a book. The nurse went over to him and asked if he had lost his wallet. Mr. Goldstein looked up with surprise, put his hand in his back pocket and said, 'Oh, it is missing!'

'This kind gentleman found a wallet and we wondered if it could be yours?' I handed Mr. Goldstein the wallet and the second he saw it, he smiled with relief and said, 'Yes, that's it! It must have dropped out of my pocket this afternoon. I want to give you a reward.'

'No, thank you,' I said. 'But I have to tell you something. I read the letter in the hope of finding out who owned the wallet.' The smile on his face suddenly disappeared. 'You read that letter?'

'Not only did I read it, I think I know where Hannah is.' He suddenly grew pale. 'Hannah? You know where she is? How is she? Is she still as pretty as she was? Please, please tell me,' he begged.

'She's fine ... just as pretty as when you knew her.' I said softly. The old man smiled with anticipation and asked, 'Could you tell me where she is? I want to call her tomorrow.' He grabbed my hand and said, 'You know something, mister, I was so in love with that girl that when that letter came, my life literally ended. I never married. I guess I've always loved her.'

'Mr. Goldstein,' I said, 'come with me. 'We took the elevator down to the third floor. The hallways were darkened and only one or two little night-lights lit our way to the day room where Hannah was sitting alone watching the television. The nurse walked over to her. 'Hannah,' she said softly, pointing to Michael, who was waiting with me in the doorway. 'Do you know this man?'

She adjusted her glasses, looked for a moment, but didn't say a word. Michael said softly, almost in a whisper, 'Hannah, it's Michael. Do you remember me?'

She gasped, 'Michael! I don't believe it! Michael! It's you! My Michael!' He walked slowly towards her and they embraced. The nurse and I left with tears streaming down our faces.

'See,' I said. 'See how the Good Lord works! If it's meant to be, it will be.' About three weeks later I got a call at my office from the nursing home. 'Can you get away on Sunday to attend a wedding? Michael and Hannah are going to tie the knot!'

It was a beautiful wedding with all the people at the nursing home dressed up to join in the celebration. Hannah wore a light beige dress and looked beautiful. Michael wore a dark blue suit and stood tall. They made me their best man. The hospital gave them their own room and if you ever wanted to see a 76-year-old bride and a 79-year-old groom acting like two teenagers, you had to see this couple.

A perfect ending for a love affair that had lasted nearly 60 years!


- Author Unknown, ZigZiglar.com

Friday, January 5, 2007

Dating with Pure Passion

Have you read Rob Eagar's book, Dating with Pure Passion (Harvest House Publishers)? It is designed to help you:

• Attract healthy dating partners with strong character
• Overcome self-esteem struggles rooted in the need to be accepted
• Handle conflicts and emotional break-ups with integrity
• Guard the heart against premature commitments

Rob Eagar gives practical answers to modern relationship issues and offers a new approach to finding love that can be sustained for a lifetime. Eagar writes:

The purpose of dating and marriage is that two people share sacrificial love. You want to find someone who is passionate about investing in your life and vice versa.

Rob Eagar will encourage and equip college students, young adults, singles, and the single-again with a fresh outlook on dating as he teaches how to:

• Recognize God working on your behalf
• Break the cycle of fruitless relationships
• Find and attract healthy singles
• Appreciate sexual desire and resist temptation
• Handle the pressures to get married

For more information, go to: http://www.robeagar.com/

Saturday, December 9, 2006

Thought-Provoking Quotations: Breaking Up Is Hard To Do

’Tis better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all. - Alfred Lord Tennyson

Of all sad words of tongue or pen, the saddest are these: “It might have been!” - John Greenleaf Whittier

If you love something, set it free. If it comes back, it was, and always will be, yours. If it does not return, it was never yours to begin with. - author unknown

Every day, single adults who are tired of waiting for the perfect match ask themselves, “Is this the best I can do?” Too often, the answer is “You’ll do” rather than “I do.” - Harold Ivan Smith

Love anything and your heart will be wrung and possibly broken. If you want to make sure of keeping it intact you must give it to no one, not even an animal. Wrap it carefully round with hobbies and little luxuries; avoid all entanglements. Lock it up safe in the casket or coffin of your selfishness. But in that casket—safe, dark, motionless, airless—it will change. It will not be broken; it will become unbreakable, impenetrable, irredeemable. To love is to be vulnerable. - C.S. Lewis

Resist the temptation to trifle with other people’s feelings. It may be fun to “play fish” like a trout on a fly line, but it is cruel, it is dishonest, and it is dangerous. - Elisabeth Elliot

Don’t marry the person you think you can live with; marry only the individual you think you can’t live without. - Dr. James C. Dobson

A relationship isn’t worth repairing if it forces you to compromise your values or undermine your self-respect. - Les & Leslie Parrott

If you love someone so much that you want that person to be happy—even if you are not the one to make him or her happy—then you really love that person. - Ray Short

The freest person in the world is one with an open heart, a broken spirit, and a new direction in which to travel. - Gordon MacDonald

Not everyone is healthy enough to have a front row seat in our lives. - Susan L. Taylor

Is that love I see in your eyes, or merely a reflection of mine? - author unknown

Love has nothing to do with what you are expecting to get, it’s what you are expected to give— which is everything. - author unknown

The opposite of love is not hate—it is indifference. - author unknown

Immature love says, “I love you because I need you.” Mature love says, “I need you because I love you.” - Erich Fromm

By far the most common reason people stay in an unhappy relationship is this: even a bad relationship can bring a feeling of security—no matter how false it is. - Les & Leslie Parrott

Let It Go!

Let It Go!

There are people who can walk away from you. And hear me when I tell you this! When people can walk away from you: let them walk.

I don’t want you to try to talk another person into staying with you, loving you, calling you, caring about you, coming to see you, staying attached to you. I mean hang up the phone. When people can walk away from you, let them walk. Your destiny is never tied to anybody that left.

The Bible says, “They went out from us, but they did not really belong to us. For if they had belonged to us, they would have remained with us; but their going showed that none of them belonged to us” (1 John 2:19).

People leave you because they are not joined to you. And if they are not joined to you, you can’t make them stay. Let them go.

And it doesn’t mean that they are a bad person it just means that their part in the story is over. And you’ve got to know when people’s part in your story is over so that you don’t keep trying to raise the dead.

You’ve got to know when it’s dead. You’ve got to know when it’s over. Let me tell you something. I’ve got the gift of good-bye. I believe in good-bye.

It’s not that I’m hateful, it’s that I’m faithful, and I know whatever God means for me to have He’ll give it to me. And if it takes too much sweat I don’t need it. Stop begging people to stay. Let them go!

If you are holding on to something that doesn’t belong to you and was never intended for your life, then you need to... LET IT GO!
If you are holding on to past hurts and pains... LET IT GO!
If someone can’t treat you right, love you back, and see your worth... LET IT GO!
If someone has angered you... LET IT GO!
If you are holding on to some thoughts of evil and revenge... LET IT GO!
If you are involved in a wrong relationship or addiction... LET IT GO!
If you are holding on to a job that no longer meets your needs or talents... LET IT GO!
If you have a bad attitude... LET IT GO!
If you keep judging others to make yourself feel better... LET IT GO!
If you’re stuck in the past and God is trying to take you to a new level in Him... LET IT GO!
If you are struggling with the healing of a broken relationship... LET IT GO!
If you keep trying to help someone who won’t even try to help themselves... LET IT GO!
If you’re feeling depressed and stressed... LET IT GO!
If there is a particular situation that you are so used to handling yourself and God is saying “take your hands off of it,” then you need to... LET IT GO!
Let the past be the past. Forget the former things. GOD is doing a new thing for this new year... LET IT GO!
Get Right or Get Left... think about it, and then... LET IT GO!

- T.D. Jakes

Only the One who Risks Is Free

To laugh is to risk appearing the fool.
To weep is to risk appearing sentimental.
To reach out for another is to risk involvement.
To expose feelings is to risk exposing your true self.
To share your ideas and dreams with others is to risk their loss.
To love is to risk not being loved in return.
To live is to risk dying.
To hope is to risk despair.
To try is to risk failure.

But risks must be taken,
because the greatest hazard in life is to risk nothing.
The person who risks nothing:
does nothing,
has nothing,
and is nothing.
They may avoid suffering and sorrow.
But they simply cannot learn, feel, change, grow, love, or live.
Chained by close-mindedness, they become slaves.
They have forfeited freedom.
Only the one who risks is free.

- anonymous

What The Bible Says about Hope and Healing

“For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the Lord,… “plans to give you hope and a future.” - Jeremiah 29:11

Nothing can separate us from the love of God. - Romans 8:39

The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit. - Psalm 34:18

Those who hope in the Lord will renew their strength.
They will soar on wings like eagles;
they will run and not grow weary,
they will walk and not be faint. - Isaiah 40:31

I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me. - Philippians 4:13

What the Bible Says about Breaking Up

Can two walk together, unless they are agreed? - Amos 3:3

Live in harmony with one another; be sympathetic, love as brothers, be compassionate and humble. Do not repay evil with evil or insult with insult, but with blessing, because to this you were called so that you may inherit a blessing. - 1 Peter 3:8-9

Get rid of all bitterness, rage and anger, brawling and slander, along with every form of malice. Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you. - Ephesians 4:31-32

Do not lie to each other, since you have taken off your old self with its practices and have put on the new self, which is being renewed in knowledge in the image of its Creator. - Colossians 3:9

Do everything without complaining or arguing. - Philippians 2:14